We as humans are not only living as a private man, but also as a social creature that is not possible a lot of things that do make us feel sad, disappointed and hurt. However, it is fitting all of it, does not make us worse off. Because our happiness is our right, to the following are nine tips to make our lives happy.
1. Don’t Fear and Worry
Feelings of fear and worry are our mind the most unproductive. Most of the things we worry or fear never happened. So what are we worried and afraid?
2. Never Saving Revenge
Revenge is going to be the biggest and heaviest burden if we keep it in our hearts. Will you carry it throughout life? .... I Don’t think so. Don’t waste our energy to hold a grudge, certainly of no use. Use the energy that we have, for the things that are positive.
3. Focus on the Issues
If we have some problems, resolve our problems one by one. Don’t unthinkable to solve the problem at once because it will make us more stress.
4. Don’t Bring Problems at Bedtime
The problem is a very bad thing, for the health of our sleep. The problem that brought at bedtime, will make restless and not being soundly.
5. Don’t Interfere Other People's Problems
Helping others who are in trouble is a noble thing, but if we take the largest portion, to resolve the problems of others, that's the biggest mistake. Let the person who solves their own problems with the largest portion.
6. Don’t Live in the Past
It feels good to remember the fun things in the past, but don’t be complacent. Concentrate with what is happening at this time, because we would be able to feel a lot of happiness in the moment. I am sure we will have a feeling much happier if we were celebrating what happened today than remembering happiness in the past.
7. Be a Good Listener
Probably most people, including me, believe that hard to be a good listener. On the contrary we expect others who listened to us, but actually to learn to listen to others, we will get a lot of new things that can be very useful for the happiness of our lives.
8. Don’t let frustration mess up your life
Take positive action and do it consistently. Don’t let frustration at failed attempts many times, making our lives a mess. We must believe that there are only two things that happen, when we take action, that is happy or study.
9. Always Thankful
Thankful and grateful for all we get, not just the positive things but also negative things. Because I believe behind every negative thing is there are good things we can learn.
Hope it is useful!
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